What If It Works Out? Learning To Expect Better

The Problem With Worst-Case Thinking

We’ve been trained, sometimes by school, often by disappointment, to focus on what could go wrong.
It sounds like:
“Don’t get your hopes up.”
“Be realistic.”
“Don’t set yourself up to fail.”
It’s framed like wisdom. But here’s the truth:
Constantly bracing for impact doesn’t protect you. It just makes you live smaller.
You overthink opportunities.
You talk yourself out of good things. You stay in cycles that drain you, because at least they’re familiar.
And the wild part? Half the time, the worst case scenario doesn’t even happen.
But you lived like it already did.

What If You Flipped the Script?

Let’s try something. Think about a goal you’ve been avoiding.
Starting the blog. Launching the shop. Asking the question. Posting the video.
Now ask:

What if it works out?

What if people do connect with your story?
What if you are ready enough to begin?
What if the first step opens a door you didn’t even know was there?
It’s not about blind optimism.
It’s about giving the good outcome as much air time as the bad one.
Because possibility needs practice.
We’re used to doubting ourselves, we have to get better at backing ourselves too.

Why We Default to Doubt (And How to Catch It)

Let’s break this down. Most of us default to doubt for 3 key reasons:

1. Fear dresses up as logic

You think you’re being rational: “Let’s weigh the risks.”
But often, fear has already tilted the scale.
Try this instead:
Ask, “If I believed in myself right now, what would I do next?”
Let that voice in, even if it’s quiet at first.

2. Low expectations feel safer than disappointment.

We tell ourselves not to hope too much so we won’t get hurt.
But expecting less doesn’t make rejection hurt less, it just robs you of joy now.
Try this instead:
Let yourself hope a little.
Say, “This might go better than I’m used to.”
It’s not naive, it’s training your brain to believe in better. To start thinking, ‘ what if it works out ?’

3. Your brain believes what you feed it

If you always imagine failing, freezing, or flopping – your body responds with anxiety before you even begin.
Try this instead:
Start feeding your imagination images of it working out.
You stepping up. People clapping. You finishing strong.
The body follows the mind.

Real Talk: It Might Not Be Easy

Here’s the thing, it’s not always going to be smooth./image
Daring to expect better won’t prevent struggle.
You might still mess up. You might hear crickets. You might pivot.
But the point isn’t perfection.
It’s permission.

• Permission to try.
• Permission to feel hope.
• Permission to live from belief, not just fear.

Because even if it’s messy… what if it still works out?

Signs You’re Learning to Expect Better

You won’t wake up overnight completely rewired. But here’s what starts to change:

• • You say yes faster (even if you’re nervous)
  • You recognise fear but don’t let it decide
  • You imagine wins as much as losses
  • You stop apologising for wanting more
  • You believe there’s room for you, even if the space isn’t there yet

This isn’t arrogance.
This is growth mindset meets mooshy courage.

How to Practice Expecting Better

Like anything, this shift takes reps. Here are 5 practical ways to train it:
1. Start with micro wins
Give yourself a low stakes challenge:
Post something honest on social.
Speak up in the meeting.
Try the hobby without needing to be good.
The more you stack brave moments, the more belief builds.

2. Create a “What If It Works” list
Literally list the good things that could happen if your idea, effort, or risk paid off.
Read it when the doubt creeps in.

3. Visualise the win

Before you try something new, close your eyes and see it going well.
Feel it. Hear the response. Let yourself experience the good.
Train your brain to make that your new default image.

4. Surround yourself with brave energy
Follow creators, mentors, and voices who are also doing things scared.
When you see others moving with faith, it reminds you you’re not alone.

5. Speak it out loud
Try saying it:
“This could work.”
“I’m allowed to believe in this.”
“Even if I don’t know the outcome, I know I’m growing.”
Speaking belief reinforces it.

Oi Mooshy Says: Dare to Believe in Better

The Oi Mooshy vibe isn’t just about loud branding or cheeky posts.
It’s about helping people come back to life.
And part of that is retraining the part of you that’s been too afraid to expect more.
So this is your Mooshy Moment:
Dare to imagine it working out.
Not because it’s guaranteed.
But because hope is fuel, and you’re allowed to use it.

Final Word
We’ve spent too long waiting for the worst.
What would happen if we gave just as much energy to the best?
What would shift if you walked into the next opportunity thinking:
“Maybe this is where it begins.”
“Maybe this time it clicks.”
“Maybe it works out.”
No promises. No fluff.
Just a bold dare to believe in what’s possible.
It’s your life, It’s Time To LIVE It.

 

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What does “What if it works out?” really mean?
A: It’s a mindset shift, from fearing the worst to believing in the best. It helps you take brave action without waiting for perfect conditions.

Q: How can I start expecting better?
A: Begin by noticing your default fears, and challenge them with possibility. Visualise success, take micro brave steps, and speak belief over your life.

Q: What if I’m scared anyway?
A: Expecting better doesn’t mean you’re fearless, it means you’re hopeful despite the fear. And that’s powerful.

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